When a partner tries to communicate a feeling and most men have the habit of suppressing the voice of the partner. When a man does this the partner learns to keep the things to herself which results in problems. When the matter comes to his knowledge from other source, mostly it is too late to make the things right.
Remember when a partner is telling you something she doesn't always want you to do something about it. Instead she just wants you to know the things and her feelings, she just wants to be heard. Being heard is a human need, so do not tell your partner that she is just a cry baby or a problematic person when she discusses her feelings or any matter with you. It might not only save your relation but also save you from an imminent problem.
Remember when a partner is telling you something she doesn't always want you to do something about it. Instead she just wants you to know the things and her feelings, she just wants to be heard. Being heard is a human need, so do not tell your partner that she is just a cry baby or a problematic person when she discusses her feelings or any matter with you. It might not only save your relation but also save you from an imminent problem.
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